Shelley Seas the World

"Changes in latitudes, changes in attitudes"
My journey around the world. 13 countries. 105 days.

The Last Lecture

Ever since I was little I’ve loved to travel. For my 13th birthday present (and thankfully not in lieu of my bat-mitzvah party) my dad took me on my first big trip to Europe. It was probably about then as well when I stopped planning a dream wedding in my head and started focusing on more important things, like a dream honeymoon. It may sound crazy but I’ve been hooked on traveling ever since.

As Elizabeth Gilbert writes in her book Eat Pray Love (I don’t think I could resist not mentioning this super corny but inspiring book in my blog), “I feel about travel the way a happy new mother feels about her impossible, colicky, restless newborn baby – I don’t care what it puts me through. Because I adore it. Because it’s mine. Because it looks exactly like me. It can barf all over me if it wants to – I just don’t care.” Well, I couldn’t agree more.

Over the past three months I’ve been ripped off in markets, homeless in cities where not a soul spoke English and a bit queasy from the intense spices in my food – I promise I won’t go into detail. It hasn’t been easy because I’ve seen the best and the worst of what our world has to offer. But all of the hardships and challenges seem insignificant and so worth it because for those three months I let myself really live. And now, I have a better understanding of the nature of the world I live in because I chose to open my eyes and inevitably my heart and mind as well. I truly transformed into a global citizen.

With this new sense of appreciation and understanding comes a sense of ownership. No longer can I look at a map and not think of the people I met in each country and their rich culture they shared with me. I am aware of this immense responsibility that comes with this type of authentic education and that I guess will be the sequel to this journey. From the wise words of Jay Z, I came, I saw, I conquered.”

Thank you all for following along as I circumnavigated our world in 105 days. I hope that you too find something or someone that invigorates you, stirs up your soul and reinforces your passion, even if it means getting lost every once in a while.

We might only live once, but if we live it right, once is enough.

Until our next adventure –

Shelley

“A ship in port is safe but that’s not what ships are built for”
 - Grace Murray Hopper

“A ship in port is safe but that’s not what ships are built for”
 - Grace Murray Hopper

I’m Not the Same

Forgive me, Dad, I’m not the same
I think you knew that I would change
I couldn’t stay so long at sea
And not come home a different me.

I’ve been to the slums; the Amazon, too
The things that I’ve done: if only you knew.
I’ve climbed up waterfalls and swung from branches
There is no fun without taking chances

I’ve peeked into our future in Singapore.
Embraced kids who don’t have parents anymore
On the Islands of Hong Kong took in towering buildings and colorful lights
At countless street-side stands I have on feasted in delight
I laid under the impermanent Cherry Blossoms in Japan
Arrived in countries without a plan

I’ve seen the Taj; Climbed the Great Wall
I’ve slept in a capsule; I’ve done it All
Monasteries, Pagodas, Temples and Shrines
Hugged mothers who earn less than a dime
In the Tunnels of CuChi I saw what War forces one to Give
I Forced Myself to Really Live.

Witnessed South Africa post-Apartheid
Embarked on a safari to see the Big 5
Sure, All these things can be relayed
In the photo albums that’ll be displayed
But to convey all this will be demanding—
Experience is Nothing Without Understanding.

So forgive me, Dad, if I start to cry
For all of the things I really can’t describe:
Walking next to dead bodies in the road
Reaching out to an orphan’s hand to hold.
Stood in Tianamen as scripted history was told
Pondered the perspective between the young and the old.
And the people in poverty and those afraid to speak
For fear if they do, they’ll be in jail the next week

Because their government has such a watchful eye.
All the people with AIDs , getting ready to die.
The beggars in Vietnam who walk on their hands
They’re deformed from Orange and unable to stand.
Paralyzed in Killing Field prisons staring into faces of genocide
Feeling in my soul the weight of the question WHY?

I’ve seen beauty and devastation
I’ve felt sorrow; I’ve felt elation
I’ve seen birth and I’ve felt death;
Forgive me, Dad, but what is left?
So if you could, Dad, just give me time
When I come home, let me unwind

I need a moment to just… Stand. STILL.
Please understand (I’m sure you will)
I couldn’t stay so long at sea
And not come home a different me
So long as I change, the world changes, too
But be proud, Dad, because I came from you.

(I altered from the original author Natalie Lou Ritter)

“Adventure is a path. Real adventure – self-determined, self-motivated, often risky – forces you to have firsthand encounters with the world. The world the way it is, not the way you imagine it. Your body will collide with the earth and you will bear witness. In this way you will be compelled to grapple with the limitless kindness and bottomless cruelty of humankind – and perhaps realize that you yourself are capable of both. This will change you. Nothing will ever again be black-and-white.” - Mark Jenkins

Me and Brandon enjoying our last days aboard the MV Explorer!

Me and Brandon enjoying our last days aboard the MV Explorer!

Hawaii

*Cue the Lilo and Stitch Hawaiian Roller Coaster Ride song*

Laidback and spontaneous – exactly how I would describe my one day in Hilo, Hawaii. I was back on American soil, even though I still felt like a foreigner, I no longer had to worry about loosing my passport or roaming charges on my phone. Yi, my Chinese roommate, on the other hand has been dreaming of going to Hawaii her entire life. She told me that this one-day stop was the reason she came on Semester at Sea, go figure. 

Chelcie, Yi, Eshley and I got off the ship and met our wise and witty cab driver turned tour guide turned friend, JR, and he showed us his Hilo. As soon as we hopped in his van Yi asked him where she could buy a starfish – dead or alive. When asked why she responded, “I love Hawaii,” which she continued to express throughout the day. Anyways our first stop was Richardson Beach Park, the only black sand beach on the big island. The deep blue waves mixed with the green seaweed and glossy black sand assembled into a beautiful Hawaiian mosaic.

  

Next, JR took us up and over to the renowned Akaka Falls State Park. Only 11 miles out of Hilo, the Akaka falls for 442 feet, twice the height of Niagara Falls, one of the largest waterfalls in the United States. With thundering rain falling, a bright rainbow was visible from where the spray mists at the bottom of the river, illuminated by the sun-struck flow. I thought of the waterfall I saw during my first port on this voyage, in Dominica, and felt as if I had come full-circle. Not that the waterfall brought me closure, but instead I was liberated by the never-ending flow.

                                

When we returned to JR’s van he whipped out his ukulele began to sing us a few songs including Israel Kamakawiwo’ole’s Somewhere Over the Rainbow, making what was already a blissful surrounding even more serene with the sounds. It was then that I decided I loved Hawaii – after returning from a breathtaking waterfall a man I had just met an hour before was serenading me on his ukulele, life was good.

                                     

The rest of the day was spent at a local market where I bought coconut candy that had me at Aloha. This was light-years better than an Almond Joy, don’t worry they have a website (coconutcandyco.com) so I can satisfy my craving until I return to Hawaii, which I’m hoping will be soon. After perusing through antique shops, buying a Jade flower ring that the old Hawaiian lady said would bring me love (I thought it was a good use of my money) and indulging in shaved ice it was time to board the MV Explorer for the very last time. While I may not have gotten “leid” or had enough time for a luau, I learned a very important word – Ohana, Hawaiian for family. As Lilo says, “Ohana means family. Family means no one gets left behind or forgotten.” so here’s to you.

        

 

International Love: my sister and friends from all around the world made this video for my birthday. Sending them lots of love!

Kyoto, Japan

Giants vs. the Dragons at the Tokyo Dome!

Japan

My Cherry Blossom’d Birthday

Two days after leaving China, I arrived in Kobe, Japan with a backpack, my passport and knowing one word of Japanese – Konichiwa (hello). There was only one thing I really wanted to do on my birthday, see the cherry blossom festival Kyoto and I was determined. Thankfully, Japan was very easy to navigate, and we didn’t have much trouble at all understanding the transportation system with the frequent reassurance of employees—testing them by pointing to the dot on the subway map, pointing to the line we were standing in and waiting for a thumbs up. We also tried our best to distinguish the authentic geishas in the crowds, but with so many silk kimonos surrounding us, it was quite the challenge.

                             

The cherry blossom season is the most popular time of year in Japan and I was more than ecstatic to be spending my birthday there. We bought a day pass for the bus and headed straight for the Philosopher’s Path. I was in a state of complete bliss; I must have been glowing because these flowers were the most delightful things I have ever laid my eyes on. The pink and white flowers seemed to be igniting into the sky and the delicious smell was floating around everywhere. Zen masters are known for saying that you can’t see your reflection in running water, only still water. The pure natural beauty of the surrounding gardens and the energy from the cherry blossoms made everyone seem at ease with themselves and just so happy. Maybe it’s a little much to call it flower power, but regardless, it brought a whole new meaning to happy birthday. 

                                 

Since Kyoto was overflowing with tourists, we decided to spend the night about 45 minutes away in Osaka, known as “Japan’s best place to eat, drink and party.”

As a last-minute college girl on a budget there is no better place to stay in Japan than a capsule hotel. At $12 a night these “hotels of the future” are the greatest. Although the pods are often described to be coffin-like, they are not at all scary and come equipped with a personal T.V., screen shutter, and just enough space to keep one from feeling claustrophobic.

                                 

Despite the rain, Osaka was where my birthday celebration really began – I’m assuming it ha something to do with it being the first time we were able to put down our backpacks. At first, we walked into a restaurant that seemed to be a hit from the pictures outside (what we refer to when we can’t speak or read one word of the pictorial language), but had a rough time getting passed water when the entire menu offered was pasta and pork—and a kosher Passover to you too! After drawing a picture of rice, we finally stumbled on a much better find. The friendly waiting staff were willing to work with our #languagebarrier problems and somehow explain what was in the pictures we pointed at without getting too fed up. I wish I could illustrate the way we order when no one speaks English—from the slow speaking to the hand motions and the pointing and smiling in reassurance, the whole show is the best material I have ever had for an SNL skit.

Eshley bought us all Sake … in a jar. Whatever, it was time to start the night.

                                  

Lost in Translation … in Tokyo

After another breathtaking day in Kyoto and a very, very long and uncomfortable overnight bus I arrived in Tokyo around 7 a.m. to meet my roommate Chelcie and some other friends at the Cerulean Tower Tokyou. After a quick shower and a much-needed coffee, the streets of Tokyo were ours. First stop: the Harajuku district. I was in my very own, real life, Gwen Stefani music video. The whole area looks is as if Hot Topic and Sanario had a baby, I kid you not. From the gothic clothing to the Hello Kitty accessories, this place had a culture of its own. It may be a bit wacky, but you can’t help but love it.

If you thought Tokyo couldn’t get any wackier, Japanese baseball brought it too a whole new level. I’ve been to plenty of stadiums across the U.S. (thanks dad) and the Tokyo Dome was very impressive, but there was something so off about it – it really was a whole other ballpark’. Hotdogs were replaced with bento boxes, instead of the usual old creepy guy selling Cracker Jacks there are tiny Japanese women dressed in highlighter outfits with flowers in their hair selling squid and the cheerleaders – well, let’s just say they were pretty reserved in comparison to the Miami Marlins. Regardless of their bizarre baseball customs, Chelcie and I cheered on the Tokyo Giants as they crushed the Chunichi Dragons.

 

One of my favorite experiences in Tokyo and definitely a favorite from my entire trip was at a Starbucks, I know – how cliché. After a full day of touring I decided to wander the streets alone for a bit. Of course, just my luck it started raining. So me, along with my brand new clear umbrella, stumbled upon the Shibuya crossing – the largest intersection in the world. I was drawn to this organized chaos of pedestrians, but there are only so many times one can walk back and forth to take in the energy. I walked up to the second floor of the nearby quiet Starbucks, bought myself a hot chocolate and sat down right in front of a window with a perfect panoramic view of the unfolding scene below me. As soon as one light turns red, the other few follow and mass amounts of people cross this junction. I sat there fascinated by this and watched it repeat until 1 in the morning. I really can’t explain why I was so intrigued by this crosswalk. Maybe it was my curiosity about the people – where they came from and where they were heading. I’m really not sure, but I’m positive I have never enjoyed a cup of hot chocolate more.

          

From the cutsey culture to high tech wonders to the conservative mannerisms, Tokyo is a true blend of the past, present and future.  I met sumo wrestlers, visited traditional shrines, went to the Sega Club, tried to understand anime (fail), went to Tsukiji Fish Market (the busiest one in the world) at 7 a.m. and ate tuna right after it was sliced off the fish, walked in the park through cherry blossoms – all in two days.

のての実 – It’s been real Japan.

                           

Shelley



An invisible red thread connects those that are destined to meet, regardless of time, place or circumstance. The thread may stretch or tangle but never break.

—Ancient Chinese Proverb 

Hong Kong, China

Hong Kong, China